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Saturday, September 14, 2013

On the Farm


As I drove into my Grandfather's drive way, I began to remember special times on the farm.  How strange it seemed to be at the house again under different circumstances.  The house was still there, the yard was still there, the sheds were still there, but many things were missing.  As I looked up where the old white barn used to be, I felt a slight pain in my heart.  It was now a wide open space that sat upon a hill (which seemed a lot smaller now).  I began to remember childhood times of sledding down the hill after winter storms.  I looked back up to the empty space and memories flooded my mind of running up and down the stairs in the barn and playing hide and seek with my brother.  I thought about the old blue classic car that my grandfather used to keep stored in the barn.  I remember how he told us not to play in it but my brother and I would lift the cover and climb in it.  I remember the old fashioned seat belts and how I could never work them.  

I then began to walk around the bottom of the hill.  I looked beyond where the old barn used to be, which now consisted of housing developments with numerous houses, that all looked the exact same.  I remembered back upon the times of sitting behind the grain silos.  I remember picking flowers behind the silos and singing.  Oh how I would always sing on that farm.  I even would sit in the silos and scream to hear the echo of my voice.  I remembered sitting upon the rolling hills and praying my first prayers.  I remember one specific time when I was about 6-7 years old, I was sitting upon a hill on the farm and I prayed to God "If You exist God, If You are out there, give me a sign."  Immediately everything went silent.  It was like sound and time itself had stopped on that small hill.  Then all of a sudden the birds started chirping and the bugs started buzzing again.  I knew then that God existed and that He had spoken to me through silence.  

I then began to walk down to the creek.  It used to be a creek with only a dirt path.  Now it consisted of a wide cement trail.  I walked down to where the creek ran and I began to remember a time when my brother and I were playing in the creek.  I was wearing pink satin shoes and my brother was standing on the edge of the water.  I was close to the edge and I believe he pushed me in and my pink satin shoes got wet.  I cried and he laughed.  As I remembered this, I began to laugh out loud.  Brothers will be brothers I thought.  I then walked a little further up the creek and thought as looking upon it, that the creek hadn't changed that much.  Only the surroundings around the creek had changed, not the actual creek itself.  As I began to walk more, I saw a hole in the ground which was probably made by a small snake.  I then began to remember another memory of walking upon the creek as a child.  I was walking up the edge of the water and a snake came right past my foot! I remembered how scared I was and how I ran screaming back to the house to tell my grandma and grandpa.  Which, they did not believe me.  

I then headed back to the cement path and began to walk upon the old farm, which was only a farm in memories.  As I walked I began to look upon the houses that now where residing on the old farm.  I saw a married couple building their deck.  I thought to myself... "We were the first.  You don't know the history behind your land.  There is history.  This was my grandpa's farm.  His father lived here.  Grandpa was born in that house."  I then walked down the path for about 15 minutes and then decided to turn back towards the house.  I walked past the couple building the deck and the man said "hello."  I began to cry and I just waved hello to him as I pulled my sunglasses over my eyes.  I then walked back towards the house.

As I approached the house, I looked to my left and the old rhubarb plants where still growing with the wild flowers, that also consisted of unseen poison ivy.  I remembered how great my grandmother's rhubarb pies were, how I missed those pies.  I then walked around the house and leaned against the house.  I was remembering the times that my grandpa and grandma would sit on their lawn chairs and just look out upon the farm.  There usually consisted of grapes that where just picked right by where the chairs were set up, lemonade or tea, and small sandwiches.  I then walked toward the front of the house and remembered where all of our pets were buried.  I bet there were maybe 50 animals out there that consisted of my grandparents time, my mother's time, and our time.  I then remembered our old dog who got hit by a motorcycle as we were walking down the old country road.  I remembered crying and having to carry the dog back and burry it with my mother and my brother.  

I then turned toward the mailbox and thought "I wonder if there is mail?"  I did not check because I thought... "Who would I give it to?" As I walked back to my car, tears began to fall as I remembered all of these wonderful memories.  I leaned against my back bumper on my car and took one last look upon the old farm house.  "So many memories, so much love."  Light began to pour down upon the house.  "Yes, the house was empty but my heart will always remain full."  I took a photo of the house and said my goodbyes.  

I then got into my car and pulled around.  I took one last look at the old farm house.  I looked in the old kitchen window as I sat there stopped in the driveway.  I was remembering all the times of visiting my grandfather.  As I would drive away, every time he would stand in that old kitchen window and wave goodbye.  My mother always said he was checking on us wearing our seat belts.  I never believed that. I think he never wanted us leaving and was holding onto the last look upon us.  As I looked into that old kitchen window, somehow I expected to see Grandpa standing and waving to me.  I did not.  The house was empty and the memories remain.  

How much history is still upon that house, the land, and that open space upon that small hill.  


    my Grandpa's old farm house

Friday, August 23, 2013

well traveled... or not so.

Today I was counting the countries that I have been to.  I thought it was more.  I'm a little disappointed that I have only been to 16 different countries. There are 196 countries in the world to see.  :-(  I'm going to have to upscale the number soon. I really thought I had been to more.

Tuesday, March 19, 2013

Whatever belongs

This morning I was in my quiet time and I was singing...

"Whatever it looks like here I am.
  Whatever the days like here I am.
  I give You all that I am God.  All that I am."

As I began to sing this over and over, I was awe struck by the love of God.
That whatever condition I am in, I can go to God and say "Here I am."
I may be having the best of days or the worst of days but one thing is for sure, God will accept me whatever my condition looks like.  That whatever the day is like, I can go to God and say "Here I am Lord. Here I am."  I may be standing in trials, tribulations, rain, or shine but one thing is certain...  God will accept me whatever the day is like.  That no matter my spiritual condition I can go to Jesus.  That no matter what my day is like I can look up and say "Abba Father!"

I was in awe today that I have a God that accepts my all that I give Him, even if my all is not all good.  We just don't give God only our good parts but we surrender all of our bad too.  How much freedom do I have in Jesus?  How much freedom do I have?  I have the freedom to say at any moment, any time, that all that I am... good or bad... all that I am I will give to this Man.  What an Amazing God I have.

"Whatever it looks like here I am.
  Whatever the days like here I am.
  I give You all that I am God.  All that I am."

Saturday, February 16, 2013

Pearls of Blessings

Today I was reading about a little fish.

Once upon a time there was a little fish.  He looked up and saw his older brother being reeled in by a fisherman.  He immediately wanted to go with his brother.  He began to wait for the bait to come down again.  This would be his chance, he thought.  He took a big bite at the bait and was caught up on the fisherman's line.   He was reeled into the boat but the fisherman gave him a strange look.  He picked him up and turned him around looking strangely at his front, back, and sides.  He shook his head, looked into his eyes, and told him ...

"Your too small. Your not big enough.
Your just a baby.  Your not finished growing.
Your don't have enough meat on your bones.
Your brothers are big and mighty but you are too small."

The fisherman then threw him back into the pond.

The little fish felt the sting of rejection.  He wanted to be with all the other big fish.  What the little fish didn't realize then was that the rejection was actually a blessing.

As I read this story this evening, I realized that I am this little fish.  I have also felt this little sting of rejection.  What I didn't realize was that this sting of rejection was actually a blessing that drew me more into the heart of God.  Jesus says that rejection is a trial, a vexation to the soul.  We feel the sting but need not be wounded by it.  It is said that we should feel rejection and embrace it, without being wounded by it.  In all reality we have an eternal acceptance from the Father above.  When others reject us (no matter the situation), the Father is standing there with arms wide open in acceptance.  This will never change.  Rejection pushes us into the arms of the Father, not the acceptance of man.  What brings healing to our past rejections, is knowing our eternal acceptance can never be taken.  As I look back on my past, I can say now that I am thankful for all those times of rejection that have made me comprehend and understand more of my identity in the Father.  More of my identity in the truth of who God has called me to be in His Love.

I was reading that rejection can release us into kingdom truth and freedom.  The book I was reading this evening (rejection & praise) says... "to redeem the wounds of past rejection into pearls of blessing."  To turn our past rejections into pearls of blessing in our walk of life, in our walk in finding our identity, in finding who God has really called us to be.
                                                                    
Let this be a prayer ...
that past rejections would become beautiful pearls. 

Saturday, January 26, 2013

stories in the sand

Recently I took a trip out to the desert.  A couple of friends and I were riding through the sand dunes and we drove passed this man from Afghanistan.  He was an older man, wearing the traditional afghani wear (kamiz shalwar) and this man's face revealed his hard life.  He had beautiful wrinkles but his countenance revealed so much sadness.  My heart went out when we drove by him and I just prayed for him, while asking God questions about his life?

As we continued to drive I saw so many men alongside the road.  Some where siting in the sand, some where walking in the sand (off the side of the road), and some where taking care of camels in the sand.  We were not on a main road but a road far out into the desert.  For some reason all these men had been brought out in the sand, my heart pondered this thought.  Their lives are far from the life that I live in Abu Dhabi.  The living conditions they endure are far different than the one that I have been blessed with.  As we continued to drive on, I continued to look and pray...  "Where are they from?  What do they do?  Do they know You, Jesus?  Why so much sadness?"  I thought to myself... "They are the forgotten ones out here in the sand."

I immediately heard Holy Spirit say... "Look.  Look at all the stories.
                                                              Look at all the stories in the Sand."

Those words struck my spirit and I just began to repeat "Stories in the Sand.  Stories in the Sand."
As we drove off into those Sand Dunes, I placed my hand on the SUV window, looking at all the Stories in the Sand.

Our first stop was at a traditional camel farm.  By the way, there are many camel farms in the location that we were going.  We probably passed over 10 of them on the way.  After about 10 minutes of driving passed camel farms, we stopped at the specified one.  As we climbed out of the SUV, there was a man calling us to come over to him.  He looked Indian, but spoke very little english.  He was the caretaker of all the camels.  I couldn't help but wonder what his story was.  Where was he from? How long had he been here? Did he take good care of the camels? Did the owner of the camels take good care of him?  We had an amazing time petting and playing with the camels, but I do have to say that they sure do poo a lot!

Later on that night, we were eating a traditional arab dinner in the sand.  There was a show after the food.   This was my first experience seeing a middle-eastern belly dance show.  I was quite surprised at the sensuality of the show.  It actually made me quite uncomfortable but I couldn't help but wonder what this eastern european girl's story was.  She was beautiful and young, it was like her face glowed or sparkled. Where exactly was she from? What was her life like before she came here? What was her life like now? How did she come to work here and at this farm? Does she do anything else here? What are her friends like?  Does she see her family often?

After the show, my friends and I meandered our way over to the henna tent.  There was a woman who was wearing the traditional abaya dress, to make her look as if she was a national, but she was not.  Honestly I am not a fan of henna but I decided to get henna to get closer to the woman.  I wondered what her story was.  She was young (maybe 18-19 years old) and just seemed very innocent.  I looked into her eyes and I could see her shyness.  She immediately looked down once she caught my glance.  I began to talk to her as I asked her where she was from.  She was from Pakistan.  She was such a beautiful young woman and she had gorgeous hands.  It's funny but  her hands are the first thing that my friends and I noticed about her beauty (maybe because everything else was covered).  She began to tell me that she had just married a few weeks ago and had only been in the UAE for 15 days.  This is surprising because most Pakistani men are not able to afford to bring their wives to the land.  I told her she was blessed to be with her husband, not too many Pakistani men are able to bring their wives here.  Now that I think of it, she didn't say that she was married to a Pakistani man.  I pray and hope that she is really blessed and given the life that she deserves.  I was so drawn to this woman, she had such purity and kindness about her.  I felt that she was drawn to me as well, as she was also asking me questions.  As we left the tent, I turned to look at her and wave goodbye and thought to myself... "another Story in the Sand."

As we were driving back to the Island, I thought about all of our encounters from the evening.  From the ride to the desert, to the one of many camel farms, to the sand dune bashing (-:, to the traditional dinner-dance-and henna, to the most beautiful sunset that I have ever seen.   I was shown so many stories that evening, so many pieces of lives in the sand.

These are just a few stories that I am sharing with you, but I have come across many stories very similar and some very different.  I believe that someday I will write a book titled "Stories in the Sand."



Tuesday, January 22, 2013

without You

Today I was reading something that I wrote and sang a few years back.
Brings me back to the sweetness of prayer.

I'm waiting for the emptiness
The bareness of my soul to subside
  because without You I am incomplete

It's You that makes me who I am
It's You that makes me weak
It's You that makes me loose my selfish independency

I've come to realize that I am really nothing at all
so small...
so small...
lost in the vastness of who You really are

It's really all You that just happened to me
I lay all the credit down
I give You all the fame to attain
It's really all You that just happened to me

so small I am but You are...
The Magnificent
The Great "I AM"
The ALPHA & The OMEGA
The High & Lifted One
The One who loves unendlessly & past all this brokeness

It's all You that makes me me
More of You and less of me
More of You and less of me
Because without You I am incomplete

Loosing all this selfish independency
which was really nothing at all anyways

I cry for more humility
More of You and less of me
Because there's not room for both
More of You and less of me
Because without You I would not be me
Jesus, I would not be me, Jesus

Sunday, January 20, 2013

hurt to change

I read this quote (Longing for Eden) that pierced me today.

"Until the pain of remaining the same becomes greater than the pain of change,
          one will always choose to remain the same."

We know that we are more than conquerors through Christ Jesus, when He reveals the pain of staying the same outweighs the pain of changing.  Although changing at times hurts as Christ peels layer after layer after layer of our worldly flesh or desire off, the pain of staying the same is death.  I would rather be restored and changed, than to be dead and plateau.

My prayer is that the Lord would continue to make my sameness hurt to change. This is what I pray.

The pain of remaining the same
Plateau on the life in carnality
Oneness with the world pertaining to the average life of goodness
what goodness could even compare
as we remain the same without change?

Oh no...  Never giving up
Pressing on through the pain of change
Never stay the same
Oh no... Never stay the same

The pain endureth until the end of the night
Must it go? Must it leave tonight? Must it disappear with the dawn?
Pain leaves with the quickness of my self preservation

What pain endures past a leveled ground of comfort?
What pain endures past this horizontal plane?
What pain endures beyond my plateu of this so called life
      past the canyons surrounding my soul?

For You are good, You are good
even through the pain

Make my sameness hurt to change